This week I got the news that my beloved 3rd grade teacher, Mrs. Stookbury, died after a valiant fight with cancer. It saddens my soul that this bright shining light in the world has passed on. I know her family and close friends must be aching with loss. I heard that her last months were painful and debilitating. And in light of this fact, I am glad that she no longer has to suffer. I'm so thankful that I got to be one of her many, many students in her years as an educator.
I have been thinking about her all day. I have only fond memories of her.
She was SUNSHINE at Sequoyah Elementary School. She was an ANCHOR in my childhood.
Mrs. Katherine Stooksbury |
Now that I am a mom and have had children this age, I feel even more indebted to Mrs. Stooksbury. What a significant influence teachers are in the lives of children!!
Two years ago, when Asher was in 3rd
grade, I wrote a thank you letter to his teacher letting her know how
significant my 3rd grade teacher was. I expressed how important and memorable I know she will be to my
son. I also wrote a letter to Mrs.
Stooksbury to let her know that now I have a 3rd
grader of my own. I reminisced in the letter about
my favorite memories of her.
The most significant was how she stood at the classroom door
and welcomed us to the day. She offered
hugs and bright shining smiles. I loved
it. It was such a comfort.
At one point in the year, she had been on a diet and had
lost a substantial amount of weight. None of the students were happy about
that, as she was not nearly as “squishy” and soft when we hugged her!
I remember her reading aloud The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, over a couple of weeks. We were
captivated. It is still one of my very
favorite Christmas books.
I remember she was a safe place for me. My cousin died, tragically, during that
school year and it was my first death to experience. I remember her being so in tune and
compassionate.
I loved her great big smile, twinkling eyes, and wonderful
laugh.
When I wrote to her a couple of years ago, she wrote a 3
page letter in response.
It was such a treasure to hear from her. She wrote about the fond memories she had of our family at the
school during those years. She reminisced about her years of being in the classroom. It was so fun to hear from her.
I want to continue to show appreciation to my kids' teachers. They give so endlessly to their students. I am so grateful for all they do. I am astounded by the indelible mark that a teacher can make in these impressionable years.
I try to love my teachers through notes, and prayers, and baked
goods. These Chocolate Chip Peanut Butter Cookies are ones I made for Lainey’s teacher a few weeks ago. (Lainey is in 3rd grade this year). [Of course, at our school, I had to attach a note with a warning that “THESE CONTAIN PEANUT PRODUCT”]. The recipe is from The Peanut Butter & Co. Cookbook, a cookbook filled with peanut butter recipes from the peanut butter sandwich shop in NYC. I think these cookies are terrific! They are crispy yet chewy, rich and chocolate-studded. I can’t think of anything much more comforting than a Chocolate Chip Peanut Butter Cookie. I wish I knew what Mrs. Stooksbury's favorite kind of cookie was so I could make it in her honor! (I may just have to start calling these the Mrs. Stookbury cookies in memory and honor of her.)
I encourage you to LOVE A TEACHER THIS MONTH: a teacher from your past, or present – or your child’s teacher or grandchild’s teacher, or neighbor-friend who is a teacher. Give the gift of GRATITUDE and maybe even some cookies!
Julie, Thank you so much for not only sharing your yummy recipes but your sweet memories of your teacher. You have a beautiful family. I cannot wait to try some of these yummy recipes.
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